Challenged Hope

Grandmother raising Grandchildren with FASD in Hamilton Ontario Canada

Removing All Doubt!

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During my past two decades of raising grandchildren with mental disabilities, I often wondered if seeking custody had been the right decision. Many people, some of whom I loved, turned their backs on me when I took in my first grandchild. One was a close family member, another who I thought was a good friend, and also a minister whose church I attended when my grandson was first born. Their venomous opinions and haughty judgments worsened the stress I was experiencing, causing me to doubt my decision to raise my grandchildren–would they be better off in foster care?

But now, looking back on those days through these photos, I have to question those negative people’s motives. How can anyone look at the pictures and not smile at the love and childish antics my grandchildren are sharing? Memories are wonderful things and can help a person see their past and the choices they made more clearly and thereby remove all doubt that what they did in the moment was the right thing!

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Author: whereasi

I am a Grandmother raising Grandchildren with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Please read of our family struggles and challenges with this mental disorder at www.challengedhope.com. My memoirs: Two Decades Of Diapers, and, Fetal Alcohol Syndrome: The Teen Years, are available from Amazon, Kobo, Barnes & Noble, and other fine ebook distributors. I also write fiction, and am now embarking on a new adventure creating children's picture books. For all info, see my author blog at www.barbarastudham.com.

One thought on “Removing All Doubt!

  1. YEP I would do it all over again too

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